Monday, February 25, 2008

Sad to Know...

Most of my friends in person know that my MIL does not agree with my relationship to his son eversince. My husband tried to tell his mother about me even before we met in person but he only got bad comments about me or about filipinas that is so painful.I will not tell you what she said before because it's too shameful.She is too judgemental thinking that all FILIPINOS are the same for she has had bad experience with a Pinoy guy in her life before.

Well,she just knew recently that Sandy and I are now married and having a child together.My husband sent her an e-mail telling all these recently but he did not get a reply from her. What she did,she contacted his brother and burst out her anger to him because she has a feeling that her other son knew about it and kept it secret from her.And why not? She is just full of anger and do not appreciate her son's success and happiness.

She's mad with her son because she thinks David knew about it,so what? I can only guess why she's so mad because of the fact that of all the people in the world,knowing that she's the mother of my husband is the last person to know about his son's marriage.Isn't that insulting to her part? I guess she deserves it.

Just too sad to know that despite of sending her photos of her new grandchild,she cannot or perhaps won't accept our baby Jadyn forever. Unless God will do a miracle she will learn to love her as she has her blood running in my baby's veins.

7 comments:

Marie NP said...

Hi Anne, golly its quite strange your MIL traits, hala oi diba kasagaran ganahan kaayo silag Pinay ma asawa sa ilang anak, kay akong bana pay pasultion parehas lang tanan kana! way mga puangod! ni comment jod ko dinhi kay unfair kaayo na sa imong pamilya labi na sa imong bana... nah dili jod na nimo sila kalikayan ba,discrimination jod ang ipairal..kung buot lang huna hunaon pinay ang pinaka the best na asawa! dugay naman unta mo nagmenyo.. dili hapon nya ma accept! Nah..taas kaayo ni.. hoping everything turns well in the near future.

Jennifer said...

i hope God will do a miracle. Sorry to hear that girl. im glad tha my soon to be MIl is not like our MIL.. Just hoping that your MIL will learn to accept and love you as a DIL and also her grandchild.

MamaLot said...

time will come ganda she will accept u and Jadyn... wait until she Jadyn na in person... angel kaayo nang bataa madawat ra lagi mo in God's time...

Anonymous said...

Time heal all wounds as the saying goes, and no worries blood is thicker than water soon she will acknowledge jadyn be patient

""rarejonRez"" said...

whew i didn't know naay mga ing-ana nga puti nga mga MIL. usually anne akong mailhan kay lakas kaau ug dating ang mga pinay sa pamilya sa mga puti. but urs is such a sad thing. oh well, cge lang, as long as si hubby mo karamay jud nimo no matter what happens. in the end, it's the two of u that matter, basta ba wa ninyo sya pakitai ug dautan nga buot. ma-change ra na sya kadugayan anne.. hope that will be soon. :)

***FYRNZ*** said...

Time heals in God's Time and all will be well with your situation to your MIL..Keep Prayin and God Bless..

Ritchelle said...

I am sure someday somehow everything will be alright!Unsa gud tawn imo kagul-an diha oy nga soft ni heart mga mama gud,i know hibaw ka ana kay Mama na pod ka,di ba sa?

Finger's cross,before Jadyn turns one you can make up with her bisan wala mo gaaway..hope GOD will talk before her..aw unsa ba...dramaha pod aning imong entry oy..naks!

 

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